Sunday, August 30, 2020

Burlington VT

We took Nicholas to Vermont yesterday. We went up a day early to check out the city of Burlington and the rink where he'll be spending most of his time.  It's literally right on Lake Champlain!  Right at the top of those stairs. Nicholas told me how nice it was but I had no idea how nice!  It's so beautiful...




 Then we went to the waterfront for some drinks and appetizers...




and then over to Church Street for some dinner.  It's such a beautiful city.


 Today we moved Nicholas into his new place...


I was so pleasantly surprised with how nice it is and how much space he has.  He's going to be in this double for the month of September and then he and his roommate will move into a bigger suite with two more kids in October...




I'm actually so jealous of where he gets to live for the next 7 months...


I'm going to miss him terribly.  He gives me the best hugs every day.  But I'm so happy for him at the same time.  He'll be living his best life!  That's for sure!!

Friday, August 28, 2020

Julia's 18th birthday

Julia celebrated her birthday last night with her best friends...



Tonight we went to the Cheesecake Factory for dinner and of course delicious cheesecake...



And Nicholas is leaving for Vermont tomorrow.  So exciting but so sad at the same time.


It's been a very emotional day to say the least.  I love my babies!  (Even if two of them are officially "adults" now.)  



Wednesday, August 26, 2020

Fly Girl



We visited Endicott College for a second time today and she still loves it!  She says it's her number one choice because of...

Academics (no chemistry required...yay!)

Location (Boston hospitals for clinicals.)
Location (Gorgeous campus right on the ocean!)
Location (Close to Boston for some fun, close to lots of gorgeous beaches and towns, and close to home...only a little over an hour away. Well that's really a plus for us...maybe not really all that important to her.)

And an awesome competitive dance team!

Fingers crossed she gets in and the price is right!  : )

Sunday, August 23, 2020

Friday, August 21, 2020

Behind the scenes and other happenings

These are some behind the scenes pictures from Julia's photo shoot the other day...


Danny was the assistant...







Julia with Danny's friend, TC.  He is so talented!!


In other happenings...Gianna spent the past three days on Block Island with her friends Sam and Caroline. She said she had fun but that's about all I got out of her...


And Julia and I just did a second tour of UNH today.  It was really hot...like 90's hot...and of course wearing masks makes it even hotter.  We weren't allowed to go inside any of the buildings so that makes it a bit harder to decide if you like it there or not. We were there a year ago and after touring so many other colleges we both don't really remember what the inside of the buildings looked like.  Oh well.  She still likes it there but I think Sacred Heart and Endicott are still her favorites.  We go back to Endicott for a second look next week.  Very excited about that because it's my favorite campus!


That's Julia in front of UNH's nursing building.  It looks nice from the outside : )

Thursday, August 20, 2020

What is the end game of Covid-19

Go ahead and stick a fork in me because I'm so DONE with Covid-19.  If you're not interested in my opinion then go ahead and click out of here.  Now's your chance!

The teacher's union is putting up a fierce fight to cancel face to face school and go 100% virtual.  Right now our schools are doing a hybrid model of just two days a week in person and three days virtual.  There is NO WAY my girls are going to get a proper education this year...and that's on top of what they lost last year.

This is what it will look like when my girls go "back to school" at the high school...IF they go back at all.  This is the cafeteria.  This is how they will sit at lunch.  They are assigned a chair and have to eat alone.


I am incredibly sad and incredibly angry at the same time.  This is Julia's senior year of high school.  I can guarantee you there will be no homecoming, no rally's, no extra curricular groups or activities like her new dance team that she was to be the captain of, no senior prom (on top of no junior prom last year), no National Honor Society induction and no traditional graduation ceremony.  She will not have a dance competition season for a second year in a row.  No last dance recital for her.  Her senior year will be RUINED.  And I thought Nicholas had it bad for his senior year?  At least he got to go to school from September to mid-March and was able to have a normal 6 months of his senior year! Never did I imagine we would STILL be living in this nightmare.  What the hell happened to "flattening the curve"?

There is NO rhyme or reason for any of the stupid rules! Why can't you try on clothes in the large department stores (like Kohl's)?  Why can you stand in a long line of people to pay for your items but you can't go into a closed room with a door to try on clothes?  No...you have to be inconvenienced by going BACK to stand in a long line and be among all kinds of people to return those items because you couldn't try them on in the first place!!  Ridiculous!!!

Julia wants to go to the drive-in movies in Rhode Island.  Talk about safe!!  She could buy her ticket ahead of time on-line, wear her mask to show the masked attendant her ticket with zero contact, drive to her spot, bring her own food from home so she doesn't have to stand in line to buy anything, sit INSIDE a closed car if she wanted to...or even sit outside her car in a chair with no one anywhere near her...but NO???  Our Governor says if we go to Rhode Island, which is minutes away from our home in MA, that we have to quarantine for 14 days upon return or pay a $500 fine?  But he says Rhode Islanders can come here to buy coffee, do a little shopping but then they have to go right home.  What?!?!  Is there any sense to that at all???

I'm taking this straight off of Facebook.  These aren't my words but they could be!  It says everything that I'm thinking and feeling right now.


What is the end game with the COVID-19?? Anyone???

What is the magic formula that is going to allow us to sound the “all clear”? Is it zero cases? For a while, the goal was to simply “flatten the curve", but now that we are disconnecting utilities for gatherings in California, setting up check points in New York, and recommending goggles (what’s next?), it seems as if there is, in fact, no end game. And, truthfully, the only way that we will see numbers drop is if we cease testing and stop reporting. Bear in mind that hundreds of thousands have shown up to be tested, registered, left due to long waits, and still come up positive when they received their results.

Is it a vaccine? It took 25 years for a chicken pox vaccine to be developed. The smallpox inoculation was discovered in 1776 and the last known natural case was in 1977. We have a flu vaccine that is only 40 to 60% effective (that’s generous- the last two years it was more like 20-25%), less than half of the US population chooses to get one, and roughly 20,000 Americans still die annually due to flu or flu complications. Oh, you'll mandate it in order to attend school, travel to some foreign countries, etc.? We already have a growing number of vaccine researchers refusing proven, tested, well-known vaccines that have been administered for decades! Do you really believe the majority of people will flock to get a fast-tracked vaccine, whose long-term side effects and overall efficacy rates are anyone's best guess? How long are we going to cancel? Postpone? Reconsider?

Now we are advised against in-person school until second quarter? What if October's numbers are the same as August's? Then what? Move football to spring? What if next March is worse than this March? When do we decide quality of life outweighs risk?

We understand this virus can be deadly for SOME, but so is shellfish, peanut butter, and bee stings. We take risks every day without a second thought. We know driving a car can be dangerous, but we don't leave it parked in the garage for months on end. We know the dangers of smoking, drinking, and eating fried foods, but we do it, none-the-less. We speed on highways, some idiots still don't buckle their seat belts, we take medications more than “as directed,” and a good number of individuals don't think twice about unprotected sex. Is hugging Grandma really more dangerous than rush hour on the freeway? Is going to a bar with friends riskier than four-day old gas station sushi? Or operating a chainsaw? When and how did we so quickly lose our free will? I want a waiver that says, "I understand the risks, but I choose a life with hugs, smiles, college athletics, the state fair, concerts, and school dances."

I understand that there is a minuscule possibility I could die but, more probable, I will end up feeling like junk for a few days.

I understand I could possibly pass this virus onto someone else, but I can pass ANY virus onto someone else at any time until the end of time. Not once have I heard any of the “EXPERTS” tell us to do everything possible to boost our own immunity.

Are we busy living or busy dying?

It’s hard to tell these days.

Wednesday, August 19, 2020

Julia's senior pictures

Yesterday we drove to Duxbury to have one of Danny's friends take professional pictures of Julia for her senior pictures.  They came out gorgeous!!  The weather was perfect.  These are just some of our favorites...















Tuesday, August 18, 2020

Julia dancing

She just learned this combination in class last night.  She is amazing!!  So awesome seeing her dance again!!  It's been way too long...


Monday, August 17, 2020

Saturday, August 15, 2020

Ogunquit

We spent the past few days up in Ogunquit celebrating my birthday, enjoying the beach, the sunshine and my favorite place Marginal Way...



Isn't it gorgeous?!






We had quite the feast last night with mac & cheese, homemade macaroni salad, hot dogs, steamers and lobster...



Kim and Paula's new puppy, Amoreena, is the cutest! She looks like a stuffed animal!! 



Last night we went to the drive-ins to see Dirty Dancing.  My absolute favorite movie of all time!  It was so fun! We ate delicious buttered popcorn and chocolate chip cookie ice cream sandwiches under the stars.  The weather was perfect...



It was another great summer vacation in Ogunquit!